Life just threw me for a loop.
My Sister has cancer. 3rd type in 2 years.
First she had lymphoma in her bowel, than breast cancer, and now this.
She had surgery 3 days ago and had a total hysterectomy.
Her cancer turned out to be ovarian.
Prior to this she was caring for our Mom who is 84.
Mom is pretty independent and still living on her own.
The day before my Sister's surgery, Mom passes out cold. Her blood sugar dropped to a dangerous level.
Mom ended up in the hospital.
Extremely nervous about my sister, Mom wasn't eating like she should. Mom has type 2 diabetes.
Long story short.
My Sister needs to heal and remain as stress free worrying about Mom.
I left home that night and stayed with my Mom for a week.
It took a lot of convincing, but Mom agreed to come back home with me for a week.
Trying to talk Mom into going back and forth between her house and mine so that we both can have our homes. I wanna try to meet in the middle.
I thought it was a go, but this morning Mom said that she was going to have a perfect stranger come and live with her because she wants to stay in her home and she doesn't want me to have to leave mine..
What do I do now???
Please leave any ideas for me in comments.
HELP!!!!
Mom and I live 3 hrs apart from one another. I also have a full-time job and need to support myself. I can take a 12 week family leave and hold my job open.
Mom knows all this and still wants me to stay put.. Mom thinks she can stay by herself. My Sister and I agree, No way.
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